As I travel the highways and streets throughout the country, I have been struck by the impact that lines have on each of us as we drive. This might seem like a rather inconsequential direction to go at this time, given all that is going on in the country and the world, but I do believe that lines also impact how we live. We are often confronted with lines that we must join in order to gain admission, be given a test, purchase some commodity, wait your turn to be called, lines are a part of everyday living. As an example, let us say we are in line to get into the stadium to watch a football game (pre Covid-19). As you wait, some individuals break into the line ahead of you and this pisses you off. Similarly, driving on a two-lane highway you come upon a solid yellow line—no passing is what we are supposed to do, but some fool comes roaring past you and darts in front of you and this pisses you off. There are rules of the road that we had to learn to pass the driver’s test and the solid yellow line is explained therein. There are also rules of conduct about waiting your turn as you wait in a line. These rules are handed down by parents, schoolteachers, clergy, and others. They are the mores that have come to balance the interaction between and amongst humans.
Lines also control our behavior, whether driving or interacting with others. On the road people, typically, stay in their line and vehicles proceed in some semblance of an orderly fashion. In our daily interactions with one another there are also lines that we are not to cross, just like the solid yellow line. We are not to cheat or defraud others in some type of transaction. To do so is to cross the line. We are not to malign or slander another without a factual basis to support such. To do so is to cross the line. We are not to physically or emotionally abuse another person, be that person a spouse or child. To do so is to cross the line. There are various behaviors that we are not to pursue in public and to do so crosses the line. To engage in sexual activity in public would, generally, be crossing the line and should be done in private. Handling bodily function should also be done in private and not in public. To do so crosses the line.
Having lines maintains a measure of decorum and acceptance in human interactions. Often there is an historical and/or legal basis for the line. It is my judgment that what we are experiencing in the days since the election on November 3rd, is a continuing disregard for the historical and/or legal lines that have been passed on from generation to generation. Prior to the election we also witnessed the accepted lines of appropriate and legally sanction behavior being broken over and over. Administrative officials continually breaking the directives of the Hatch Act which precludes engaging in political activity while engaged in governmental business. The Secretary of State endorsing Trump while in Israel on government business is, but one, example. Using the White House and surrounding grounds to hold the Republican National Convention is another example of crossing the line. In the absence of accepted lines, we would have chaos and anarchy. Gun-toting vigilantes surrounding and intimidating duly elected state officials at their homes, certainly crosses the line. Members of white supremacists’ groups plotting to kidnap and execute duly elected governors is really, really crossing the line.
Indeed, there are multiple examples of the impact that lines have on human interaction. In a moment of heated passion between a man and a woman, and the man continues to have his way even though he has been told to stop, he has crossed the line. A young girl becomes pregnant and the known father refuses to accept responsibility and pay child support, he has crossed the line. A teacher telling an elementary school child that he/she is not capable of learning and becoming a doctor has crossed the line. At a drive-in fast-food establishment, there are alternating lines to go from placing the order to paying and picking it up. It is expected that each driver will respect the alternation and if they do not, they have crossed the line of fairness and respect. As we watch a football game there is a line of scrimmage and it is clearly understood that you remain on your side of the line until the ball is snapped. There are also lines drawn as to what is acceptable physical contact in a sporting event and what contact crosses the line.
In an orderly society there are laws, rules, ordinances, and regulations that govern behavior. Lines are created from these actions and decisions. A legal decision sets a precedent which is to be adhered to and to ignore a precedent is to cross that line. An ordinance may require a restaurant to reduce its capacity by 50 percent occupancy during a public health crisis. Failure to adhere to the ordinance crosses the line. A high school may have a rule about what is acceptable attire to wear to school and to flaunt the rule crosses the line. There are emission regulations which spell out the amount of carbon dioxide can be emitted from a factory smokestack. Not to follow the regulation, crosses the line.
As we reflect on the impact that lines have in our lives, we can measure ourselves against what is right or wrong, true or false, acceptable or unacceptable, appropriate or inappropriate. Most of the time, an individual is aware when he/she has crossed the line. When the police officer stops you for speeding. You know you have crossed the line as defined by the speed limit sign. When the professor writes a note on your research paper which questions whether it was your work, you know that you crossed the line. The lines are there, we, individually, choose whether to abide by them and/or to, selectively, choose which ones we will abide by. A person may situationally choose to cross the acceptable line. Speeding to get someone to the hospital in an emergency is an example. At times of intoxication a person may jump across several lines, only to regret his/her actions later when sober. Well, I am getting close to crossing the line of your indulgence of this blog, so let me stop. In closing, let me extend my best wishes to each of you for a safe holiday season and a very anticipative new year.